As far as I know, corotational fem (stiffness warping) is the state of the art of real-time FEM, so the two resources seem suitable although they don't cover collision detection properly. The same method is also described in the paper about Pixelux DMM here:
http://graphics.cs.berkeley.edu/papers/ ... TD-2009-08In case someone missed it, I recently posted a link to source code of working FEM under the permissive Zlib license, extracted from the OpenTissue framework
here.
The SOFA framework is showing real-time corotational FEM running on the GPU. They can simulate 45k tetrahedra in real-time (90FPS) on the most recent NVIDIA GPUs.
You can checkout
svn://scm.gforge.inria.fr/svn/sofa/branches/Sofa-1.0 and see the Sofa-1.0\modules\sofa\gpu\CUDA folder.
See also
http://codrt.free.fr/allardj/pub/2011/ACF11a and
http://codrt.free.fr/allardj/The upcoming
GPU Computing Gems Jade edition has a chapter on this.
Thanks,
Erwin